Adult Conversation

Am I the only person who thinks that raising your voice at a coworker in a meeting or at all is inappropriate and unacceptable behavior? This is my second job where raising your voice in a meeting is an almost every day occurrence. Seriously, can we just have a conversation without someone going on the damn defensive? I know I'm a woman with fairly thin skin and yet I just don't think it's acceptable to raise your voice at me or anyone for that matter. Let's have an adult conversation where we point out different sides of a solution and come to a conclusion together. If we can't do that I'd rather you just give me a list of things you want me to do and I'll be robotic in doing it. Gah I am so angry!